Hey guys,
i think i am a looser big time. i have no life, and i really dont know what to do. im a 21 year old female frm bay area, i am overweight, and i guess thats making me very insecure, i have no future, i say that cuz i really dont knw what i want in my future, like i went to colg and thn dropped out cuz i wasnt sure on wat major to choose, i actually work right now bt not satisfied wid it..
i dont have a lot of frnds, no boyfrnd, i guss i dont want a guy anyways! its just i have nothing going on in life...
i basically want to be famous, and i knw ths sounds weird bt i have to loose a lotta weight to bcom famous..
i guss i have some self esteem issues..
but when i am out i do have an amazing personllity, no body ever figured out that i am so lonely on inside, so i do carry myself right but i am just writing my real thoughts here in hope of getting some real advice...
thanks a lot guys...
Answer:
Hmm i c where you coming from..!
I should say that nothing is impossible in this world, you can be anything you want to be, and yes u can be famous also!
1. Hit the gym and start working your *** out.
2. Join some dance classes near by, like hip-hop maybe, dancing is abt passion...and it'll inspire you towards life..! i dance too and it helps me relax and think about life clearly too..so highly suggesting..start DANCING!
3. find some peace in spirtuality, do anything that is spirtual. like yoga, and a lot of thngs out there..
4. go back to college and get a degree.
5. u never told us, in wat way u wanna bcom famous..? wat ever that is start working towards it..and blv it or it..u'll bcom famous one day!
6. HAVE FAITH IN UR SELF!just follow these simple six steps and you'r good to go!
wish ya all the best!
No you're not a loser! not having a boyfreind doesn't make you a loser.
Ya go to the gym, eat healthy, and try something new.
Get professional counselling to be able to deal %26 overcome your issues.Talk to your family doctor to put you on a supervised weight loss diet.Once you have done these you
WILL enjoy life MORE.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!...
God Bless!!!!!!!!!...
Oh! Lot of info about you!! Have confidence and you CAN WIN the WORLD! You are after all 21. You can change a lot if you have in tension, will power and effort. Join a new a near by aerobic class or start a jogging session or any exercise followed by dieting (not fasting). For more info I have given you two sites that have good tips to start your program. Good luck.
I feel exactly like you- but I'm a bit younger. To make people take you more seriously- don't use chatspeak. Don't use like, "u and i r like best fri3nds 4 eva!" or any of that. Maybe you could find meetings or something for helping people with depression and meet friends there. Maybe you could go get your haircut a few times by the same person and then become their friend. The best friends are hair dressers. Maybe you could even go back to college to become a hair dresser. I hear it is very rewarding and I am considering it for my future career as well. Good luck!Isa
FIRST OFF, where is it written that you have to lose weight to become famous? Oprah isnt skinny and look at her. Ever heard the saying "life is what you make of it"? Try doing something every day that makes YOU smile. Remember, its the little things in life that counts. Think about what makes you feel happy and then try to build a career around that. Talk to your local school and thay can steer you on a career path.
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